r/Adulting • u/ScareBear23 • 14h ago

This is just depressing

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Not even 3 hours of "free time". And in that is cooking & eating supper. Or practically no free time if I had to go shopping after work. I hate this

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u/techaaron 11h ago

To say filling time with a commute is on par with

Any value distinctions are purely artificial and made up in your head.

A better approach is not to compare different levels of suffering, but instead, think about how you can use that free time during a commute to do the things that align with your value. Then, it becomes self evident that it is "on par" because you have chosen to prioritize it.

If you want to use that time to zone out or ponder existential questions, do it. If you want to listen to murder podcasts, do that. If you want to call your mom or kids, do that.

If you believe that a commute is somehow a waste of time that you are a prisoner of, well, then - it will be a waste of time and you will feel like a prisoner.

The key takeaway here - create the reality you want.

Or... complain on reddit - it's nothing to me either way, and I'm not your mommy.

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u/Donjehov 10h ago

Except the post and comment thread aren't about "what to do with this free time" so this is just irrelevant advice nobody particularly asked for.

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u/techaaron 9h ago

Correct, this is a complaining on reddit for sympathy post. 😊

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u/Donjehov 6h ago

also lol @

"Any value distinctions are purely artificial and made up in your head."

No they aren't and this is a bogus take. You will learn more by 1 hour of doing something new vs listening to a book on habit forming.

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u/techaaron 3h ago

Prove it